Description:

Ever felt uneasy after sex that intentions weren't communicated clearly? Don't know how to ask for consent in a sexy way? There’s nothing as freeing & erotic as being sexy knowing everyone's on the same page about desires during & intentions afterwards. In this workshop we'll explore & roll play 7 convo points that can create this ease & integrity.

1) ALTERED STATES
*I had a drink but I feel I can make aligned choices. How about you?
*I think I might be in a manic episode and should wait.

2) GENDER
*I use they/them & consider my strapon my actual cock.
*What do you call your juicy bits?

3) RELATION AGREEMENTS / COMMUNITY CONTEXT / POWER DYNAMICS
*I have a primary partner & tell them everything about my hook ups.
*I'm a leader in this camp & you're new here, let's talk about that first.
*I'm dating your ex. We're open but maybe we should talk with them first.

4) MEANINGS & INTENTIONS
*I make friends through sex! I'm not interested in commitments currently.
*For me sex is about starting relationships. I'll want to start dating if we do this.
*Anonymous sex is my jam! You're awesome but I don't want to talk after.

5) DESIRES/ KINKS/ LIMITS
*It would be really hot to do ___ to you. Would that turn you on?
*I have a trauma response from hands on my throat. It's a Hard Limit.
*I'm really into spanking! Will you spank me & then fuck me after?

6) STI TESTING/ BIRTH CONTROL
*I tested 6 mo ago for HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea & syphilis. Not Herpes or HPV (No symptoms of those.) All tests were negative. How about you?
*I have HSV2 but no current outbreak, any Q's about that?
*It's your choice completely but I want you to know I'm not ready to be a dad. If birth control fails what do you think you'd do?

7) RASH (Risk Aware / Shit Happens)
*I want you to be turned on and happy! But sometimes unintentional shit happens. Can I trust you to tell me and talk with me about it if you're uncomfortable?