Hooking Up In Integrity talkshop at the Orgy Dome
Description:
There's nothing as freeing & erotic as entering into a sexual encounter knowing you're on the same page about desires & intentions. This workshop lays out the "ABC DNA"s to talk about if you want to hook up with a feeling of ease and integrity. We'll talk about sharing desires and establishing consent in a fun and playful manner. All attendees will have a chance to roll play the conversation.
The "ABC DNA"s:
A.ltered States - I've taken this tonight, how about you? What about your mental and emotional state? Are you in your agency to make informed decisions? Should we take a raincheck? (Don't worry - I still think you're awesome and sexy!)
B.iology & Barriers - I was last tested on ___. I was tested for ___. The results were ___. I've had a previous positive result for ____. What about you? What kind of barriers would we like to use? Are we using birth control? If birth control fails are we aligned? (Acknowledging it's ultimately the pregnant person's decision.)
C.ommunity Context - Do you have other sexual relations I should know about? Am I close with your best friend, your ex, etc? Do we have a power dynamic (i.e. am I your boss, teacher, mentor, etc?) If so let's talk about how to keep this informed and ethical.
D.esires/Limits - Here's what I'm excited to do with you here and now; What about you? (Be specific!) Where do our desires overlap? Do you have any limits or triggers that I should know about? Please tell me at least one so I can trust you!!
N.ames - It would be hot if you called me ___. And I like my XXX to be called YYY. Do you have any names you enjoy for you or your bits? (E.G. "I love it when people call me Daddy" or "This part of my body might look like a cock but it's actually my pussy!" or "I'm really gay for you!!!")
A.ims & I.ntentions - Do we want to be fun sexy friends just for a night? Are we building towards a serious relationship? What do you think it will mean to you if we play today in this sexy way?